Tuesday, September 25, 2012

6 Controversial Foods

6 Controversial Foods: What to Avoid and What to Eat



Marlin FIREARMS Closing its Doors

MARLIN FIREARMS CLOSING ITS DOOR


Marlin Firearms is already closing its doors! They are doing it to us, America ! Even if you do not own a gun you need to know this. This needs to be spread to all gun owners and sportsman. We cannot rely on the media to inform us of these types of matters.

Something You May Not Know That Is Happening ... Who is buying companies, manufacturing guns??? For the last several years a company called The Freedom Group has been buying up gun and ammunition manufacturers. Some of the companies are Bushmaster, Marlin, Remington, DPMS, Dakota Arms and H&R. Some people worry that this Freedom Group is going to control most of the firearms companies in the United States . If you control the manufacturers you can decide to stop selling to civilians.

What a perfect way to control guns. Now if you do some digging you will see that The Freedom Group is owned by a company called Cerberus Capital Management. Guess who controls Cerberus??? GEORGE SOROS!!! He wants to restrict or ban all civilian guns. Please pass this on to all your freedom loving friends. This needs to come out. Why have we not heard about this in the "mainstream" media? I would think this would be BIG news. (Soros also owns Progressive Insurance). If you don't know who George Soros is, you need to do some Research. He backed Obama with millions of dollars and Obama is a puppet on a string controlled by Soros.

Send this to every gun owner in America .
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Saturday, September 22, 2012

Six Things You Should Do



Six Things You Should Never Do



In our ongoing series of articles we've been exploring the nuances of rapport and how to create it because rapport is the foundation of all effective communication. In this latest edition we are going to take a slight detour to discuss some of those things you should never do-five major turn-offs that can quickly kill your chances of developing a positive relationship with another person.You see there are a number of potentially fatal mistakes one can make, especially at the beginning of an interaction, which can truly jeopardize your ability to achieve the positive outcome you are looking for. I call these ‘landmines at the door' and if you are not careful, you can easily wander into them and then suddenly find your communication faltering, or much worse, blowing up in your face. Some are pretty obvious, others less so, but all deserve note. Let's take a look at what they are . . .#1. Mispronouncing a person's name or title. This is easily one of the worst things you can possibly do when meeting someone for the first time. It has the potential to totally undermine your credibility with another person because a person's name is, well, personal. To many people, mispronouncing their name is about as rude as deliberately messing up their hair! Remember that a person's name is closely linked to their identity-their deepest sense of self. Be extremely careful when pronouncing another's name and if you are not sure how to do it, ask! If they have an unusual name, don't make the common mistake of making a ‘cute' joke about it: No matter what you think, they are not likely to find it funny-especially if they have heard that kind of comment before.#2. Boasting about your accomplishments. Many people find it extremely distasteful when you openly brag about your title, position, wealth or accomplishments. You may think that you are ‘impressing' people, but odds are more likely you are simply alienating or humiliating them. Truly confident, accomplished people demonstrate confidence in the relaxed way in which they interact with others. They tend to downplay their accomplishments, not talk endlessly about all the great things they have or have done. #3. Comparing them to someone else. This is the old, "You know who you remind me of?" game. It's very common and generally distasteful. Usually, they're comparing the person to someone famous, like a popular celebrity. The problem is, not all people admire the same celebrities and quite often people actually dislike others who in some way remind them of their own ‘flaws'. (In the same way most people find their own voices annoying when played back on audio recordings.) For example, I once commented to a very beautiful girl I knew that she reminded me of Christie Brinkley-surely a compliment since Christie Brinkley has been, and still is, one of the most physically beautiful women on the planet. This young lady, who was a very talented and intellectual English major in college, responded by saying, "Christie Brinkley is a bimbo who has gotten by on nothing but her looks." Needless to say, I never made that comparison again! The truth is, comparing people to someone else rarely does anything to further rapport since most people are already desperately hungering for someone to appreciate who they really are as they are. Unless you know they are absolutely crazy about the person they remind you of, drop the comparison compulsion and focus on them instead.#4. Premature informality. Presumptuously acting as if you are part of someone's inner circle, or like you know someone much better than you really do, is often a total turn-off to many people and many people will display an almost instant aversion to people who act in this manner. Immediately calling someone ‘Bob' when they prefer ‘Robert', violating the subtleties of personal space through inappropriate closeness or touching, etc., can all be catastrophic to rapport. This type of behavior is often considered false and manipulative. Generally, it is much better to build connection by quietly demonstrating how you are in support of the other person's core values than it is to openly assume a level of rapport you may not actually have.#5. Failing to listen. Remember that most people want to be the star of their own show and they love nothing more than an attentive audience. Just as genuinely listening to people is one of the most powerful things you can do to help build rapport, completely dominating a conversation is one of the worst things you can do to destroy it. Make sure you are aware of the ebb and flow of the conversation and that you allow the other person more than enough time and space to express themselves. They will love and regard you as a more intelligent person for doing so.#6. Trying too hard to be like everyone else. This one is subtle and appears to be almost contradictory with one of the major principles of rapport, which is, "People tend to like people who are like them or who are like how they want to be." The truth is, you can't be too much like other people or you won't be noticed and you won't be respected. It's important to realize that people respect and admire strength and that no person is regarded as stronger than the man or woman who has a healthy love and acceptance of themselves for who they already are and who they choose to be. Dare to be a little different while truly respecting the uniqueness of others and you will get all the rapport you need.

by John Bridges, CH, CPEH

Wednesday, September 12, 2012

Keeping Secrets: To Tell or Not To Tell

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Keeping Secrets: To Tell or Not To Tell

My grandchild tells me everything, and virtually nothing to her parents. I'm conflicted about this. Should I be telling her parents what she tells me?

By Susan Stiffelman
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This is definitely a question with more than one answer and many layers, so hang in there with me while I attempt to help you find the solution that fits your situation.

Let’s say your 7-year-old grandson tells you that he kissed a girl at school.
“Don’t tell Mom and Dad!,” he begs you.
You’re torn. On the one hand, you want to respect his wishes and ensure that he’ll trust you in the future, especially as the secrets he shares become more significant. You want your grandson to consider you a safe haven, knowing how important it is for him to have a place to sort things out with a reasonable and loving adult as he grows older.

But on the other hand, you’re dying to tell his mother — your daughter. This is priceless, and you can hardly bear to keep it to yourself. What a thing to be able to chuckle over with your daughter, and reminisce about her own first-grade crush. What do you do?

You keep it to yourself. Your grandson has chosen you. He has considered you worthy of being his deep, dark well, and it’s not a role to be taken lightly. What makes this decision easy is that there’s no danger or serious repercussions to little Joey if his parents don’t find out about the kiss. So my advice is, you don’t sell out your grandson, and you keep the lines of communication open so he has someone to talk things over with as he gets older.

Now let’s take things up a notch. Your 13-year-old granddaughter tells you she’s gotten her period.
“Grandma, you absolutely, positively cannot tell Mom and Dad,” she cries.
You know your daughter — her mother — would want to know, and to celebrate this moment in her daughter’s life. You also know that your daughter will be furious with you when she finds out you’d kept it from her. What do you do?

You hold the secret, and create the space for your granddaughter to tell you about this new experience. You don’t rush the talk, and you stay lovingly connected to her. Eventually you may say, “Sweetie, I’m so happy for you. Wow! This is a huge moment in your life. I’m honored that you told me, and I respect that it’s your right to share this with whomever you choose. Can you tell me what it is about telling Mom and Dad that feels uncomfortable? What do you think might happen if you tell them?”

And then you listen. In the back of your mind, you’re looking for a way to help your granddaughter become comfortable sharing this with her parents, but you allow her to be ready at her pace. If your daughter finds out that you knew and didn’t tell her, you accept her anger and disappointment, assuring her that you will absolutely tell her if your granddaughter discloses anything dangerous.

Which leads us to the third scenario: Your 16-year-old grandson is staying with you for two weeks, and you’ve just discovered he’s been drinking and smoking pot. When you lovingly and gently confront him, he tells you he’s been doing it at home for months. He asks you not to tell his parents because they wouldn’t understand.
“Everyone does it, Grandpa. It’s no big deal,” he says with a shrug.
Now what do you do? You listen to him, love him, support him, and let him know that his parents need to know. When a grandchild reveals something to you that’s potentially dangerous, it’s essential — unless it would lead to further harm — that his parents be informed.
We want to avoid selling out our grandchildren whenever possible, but if holding their secrets could compromise their safety, we need to help our grandchildren find a way to tell Mom and Dad — unless they tell you that their own parents are in some way abusing or endangering their lives, in which case you must take the necessary steps to get them

10 Easy Musts for Staying Healthy and Cancer-free

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10 Easy Musts for Staying Healthy and Cancer-free

Cancer expert Dr. David Agus explains why the first step is knowing about "inflammation".

By Sara Reistad-Long

Your cancer risk increases as you get older.

As we age we're all aware that our body slows down. And internally our bodies slow down, too. That means our ability to resist abnormal cells and our systems’ ability to keep those cells in check decrease. Translation: as we get older abnormal cells in our body can wreak havoc. Your best defense? Prevention, especially when it comes to keeping inflammation in check. Inflammation is the body's natural process of repair and works great when you cut your finger or scrape your knee, but when it persists over time, it can lead to an increase in abnormal cells—and increase your risk of cancer. We asked David Agus, MD, a leading cancer doctor and author of The End of Illness for his top ten tips for reducing inflammation and your cancer risk now.


                                                                                                    

Songs for Grandparents DaySongs & Poems in Honor of Grandparents

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Grandparents Day Songs & Poems

Grandparent-centric songs and poems in honor of National Grandparents Day

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Drove My Chevy to the Levee on Grandparents Day

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Drove My Chevy to the Levee on Grandparents Day

Take American Pie, update the lyrics by many years, and you've got an anthem

By Michael Milligan
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Last month, my longtime friend, Augie, and I treated ourselves to a golf weekend in Northern California. But before we could leave, we had to promise our wives, our cardiologists, and the executors of our wills that we would abstain from eating, drinking, or smoking anything that was not good for us.
Our first night in the elegant dining room of our hotel — as Augie ordered a second bottle of Merlot, and I wiped a big glob of full-fat sour cream from my chin -— I casually asked if he planned to see his grandchildren on Grandparents Day.
"Grandparents Day? What are you talking about?" he bellowed, as if I'd just asked if he'd ever had a bikini wax.
I explained that Grandparents Day is celebrated every year on the first Sunday after Labor Day, September 7 this year.
"Oh, really?" Augie said, amused. Then, for the enjoyment of the entire dining room, he added, "What's the second Sunday after Labor Day — National Gastroenterology Day?" Augie always enjoys a good joke.
But he got me thinking. Were there other grandparents like him, unaware of the holiday designed to honor them? So I conducted an informal poll of the other diners, and I learned two things: 1) Most people don't like taking polls during dinner. 2) Most grandparents had never heard of Grandparents Day.
Especially surprising was one older couple who said, "We're not grandparents. Why would we know about Grandparents Day?"
"Well, you're not groundhogs, either!" Augie was quick with a response. "Follow my drift?" Then he howled and walloped the fellow on the back. It was about this time that the maitre d' suggested that we might enjoy the ambience of the veranda.
While sitting in a lounge chair, enjoying a verboten cigar and some brandy, I had a eureka moment —  a gimmick to make Grandparents Day a major holiday.
"A song!," I said, leaping to my feet.
"Sure," Augie replied with a shrug. "What would you like to hear?"
I hit him with my theory ... What Grandparents Day needs to be a major holiday is its own song! Just like Christmas, Easter, and New Year's Eve. Surprisingly, Augie stopped being a goofball and readily agreed; and together we created the following gift for grandparents everywhere. You can thank us later. But now, sing it loud and proud to the tune of Don McLean's American Pie.

Verse 1
A long, long, time ago,
I can still remember
How that music used to make me smile
I'd totally crank up The Rolling Stones
But now I'm into Norah Jones
And Radio Disney is programmed on my Buick's dial

Verse 2
Every New Year's Eve we had a blast
But by and large, those eves are past
Now the grandkids all sleep over
And we toast Big Bird and Grover

Verse 3
I can't recall the specific date
But mmmmm, that breakfast tasted great
And it was only two bucks, ninety-eight
The day of my first senior rate

Chorus
So, bye-bye, Miss Lucy in the sky
And poodle skirts, and madras shirts, and nuns who could fly
Now I'm a good old grandpa, healthy and spry
Still kicking, but just not as high
And the grandkids think I'm a great guy

Verse 4
Did you read about Dick and Jane?
She claims she's size six; he bathes in Rogaine
'Cause Madison Avenue told them so
And can you name all the Mouseketeers?
Not the new ones, like Britney Spears
And did you go 'round the world with your Duncan yo-yo?

Verse 5
Well, I saw the grandkids in your vintage Corvair
They had their iPods, you had no hair
You all started singing the blues
It's a bond you don't wanna lose ...

Verse 6
I used to be a star in football and track
But today we played touch and I threw out my back
The kids just said, Gee, that's really wack
But they still say I'm a great guy

So bye-bye, Miss Lucy in the sky...

And now, before Don McLean can kill us softly, Augie and I have left the building. Have a wonderful Grandparents Day.


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Grandpa's Little Girl (Based on Daddy's Little Girl)
 
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You're the end of the rainbow, my pot of gold,
You're Grandpa's Little Girl to have and hold.
A precious gem is what you are;
Your Grandma's bright and shining star.

You're the Spirit of Christmas, our star on the tree.
You're the Easter Bunny to Grandma and me,
Like the angels that sing, you're a Heavenly Thing
'Cause you're Grandpa's Little Girl.


You're the end of the rainbow, my pot of gold,
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Grandpa’s Lullaby (A Song for Anya)


"Grandpa's Lullaby (A Song for Anya)" Song Lyrics

By Bruce A. Kleinlein
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So sweet the baby, so sweet the baby,
reaching little hands, wandering little eyes.
So sweet the baby, so sweet the baby,
Grandpa’s little girl, Grandma’s precious one.

A product of our children, sent from up above.
This tiny little baby, that brings to us new love.

So sweet the baby, so sweet the baby,
Looking up at me, I’m all that she can see.
So sweet the baby, so sweet the baby,
I hope someday she’ll know, how I love her so.

Every single moment, precious as can be.
There’s nothing like this grandchild,
that brings this warmth to me.

Repeat beginning
Ending: So sweet the baby.


So sweet the baby, so sweet the baby,
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Grandparents

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A Song for Grandma and Grandpa - Song Lyrics

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Chorus:
Oh Grandma, Grandpa, you know that I love you
I love all those little things that you say and do
A walk through the park, a trip to the zoo
Oh Grandma, Grandpa I love you

Verse One:
Going to a ball game, fishing on the lake
Eating Grandma's cookies, boy they sure taste great
Going to the circus when it comes to town
Eating cotton candy and laughing at the clowns

Chorus:
Oh Grandma, Grandpa, you know that I love you
I love all those little things that you say and do
A hug and a kiss, a ride home from school
Oh Grandma, Grandpa I love you

Verse Two:
Spending time together, talking on the phone
Happy birthday presents, chocolate ice cream cones
Photographs and memories, picnics and parades
Saying that you love me in so many ways

Chorus:
Oh Grandma, Grandpa, you know that I love you
I love all those little things that you say and do
The stories you tell, things I never knew
Oh Grandma, Gran 

Who always brings happiness to our door... Grand parents!
Who is it who knows what birthdays are for... Grandparents! more lyrics »

Poems
Grandparents Day Diamond Poem

 HAPPY GRANDPARENTS DAY!
September 13, 2009 is Grandparents Day, a great day to think about how much your grandparents
mean to you. Describe how you feel about one of your grandparents, or someone else who is special
to you, in a diamond poem.
A diamond poem starts with a description of one thing, then switches to a description of something
else. It's easy to write one — just follow the directions under each line. When you're done, you can
read it starting from the top or the bottom.
My Grandparent and Me
[the name you call your grandparent]
[three verbs about your grandparent that end in –ing — things they like to do]
[four nouns that go along with you and your grandparent — things you both like, or have in common]
[three verbs about you that end in –ing]
[two adjectives about you]
[your name]
[two adjectives about your grandparent — words that describe him or her]
NAME ______________________________ DATE ______________________
On the back of this paper, or on a separate piece of paper, draw a picture of you and
your grandparent (or grandparents) together, doing one of the things you included in your
diamond poem.


Take a look at our Grandparents' Day Diamond Poem. Fill it out, have some fun! Diamond Poem »

Funny Poems About Grandparents



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Funny Poems for Grandparents

Poet Howard Eisenberg's ten original grandparent poems about grandma, grandpa, and their grandkids. Funny and touching - grandmothers will adore these little poems.

By Howard Eisenberg
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Poet Howard Eisenberg has written some truly funny rhymes and poems, collected in an anthology called Toddler Empire. Here are some of our favorites »


Grandparents Day is the second Sunday of September.  In the years since Jimmy Carter first declared Grandparents Day a national holiday in 1978, we’ve been following his call to reflect on the impact grandparents have on our own lives — and on society. In that spirit, we’ll help you celebrate the grands in your life with creative gifts, activities for the whole family, and more.

When is Grandparents Day

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When Is Grandparents Day?

Upcoming dates of Grandparents Day

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National Grandparents Day is celebrated on the first Sunday after Labor Day, annually.

  • September 9, 2012
  • September 8, 2013
  • September 7, 2014

You're not going to believe this but there's a National Grandparents Day. Frankly, no one in my family had ever heard of it. Pretty embarrassing for a guy who works every day at Grandparents.com.

Here's the story. Back in 1970, Marian McQuade, a West Virginia housewife, came up with the idea of a day set aside to encourage families to visit their elderly relatives. With a firm resolve to make it happen, she began lobbying policymakers. McQuade got through to her Senators, Jennings Randolph and Robert Byrd, who introduced a resolution to make Grandparents Day a national holiday. It took a while to reach the White House, but finally, in 1978, the resolution declaring National Grandparents Day as the first Sunday after Labor Day, was signed into law by President Jimmy Carter.

Ok, wait it gets better. There's a Grandparents Day song. A guy from Bad Axe, Michigan named Johnny Prill recorded "A Song for Grandma and Grandpa." It's not exactly "When I'm 64" but it's not terrible. Take a listen: A Song for Grandma and Grandpa.

Catchy, right? Granted, the date and its accompanying ditty haven't drawn the popularity of say, New Year's and "Auld Lang Syne" or Christmas and "Grandma Got Run Over By a Reindeer." Yet.

Bottom line, this Sunday, the law requires the President to call on the people of the United States to observe National Grandparents Day with appropriate pomp and circumstance. And gifts. One always needs to include a gift. So, the Grandparents.com team is ready to unveil our gift to you. Here's our website. No, here's your website. Unwrap it, use it, read it, write on it, yell at us, embrace us. We want you to treat the site as a member of your family and we're very happy to include you in ours.

Happy Grandparents Day!

What is Grandparents Day

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Celebrate Grandparents Day

A look back at the history of Grandparents Day as the 32nd annual celebration takes place on September 11

By Rich Thomaselli
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Check out our coverage of the 32nd anniversary of National Grandparents Day 2011.

It all sounded so official in 1979, with words and phrases like "whereof"' and "hereunto" and "joint resolution."

But when President Jimmy Carter signed the proclamation creating a National Grandparents Day, little did anyone know how it would grow. At the time, Carter said the holiday would recognize "the importance and worth of the 17 million grandparents in our nation."

Barely a generation later, there are now more than 70 million grandparents in the United States.

That's a lot of recognition.

And a lot of gifts, cards, and flowers, too.

On September 11, 2011, Grandparents Day will reach its 32nd anniversary. Like Mother's Day and Father's Day, it's a time for family celebration, and a chance to honor the important role grandparents play in children's lives.

Marian Lucille Herndon McQuade, an Oak Hill, W. Va., housewife, founded the holiday. McQuade had worked with senior citizens for many years and her original idea for the holiday was not only to recognize grandparents but also to bring attention to the needs of people living in nursing homes.

She began her campaign locally in 1970, eventually drawing the attention of U.S. Senator Jennings Randolph (D., W. Va.), who was instrumental in lobbying Gov. Arch Moore to establish a statewide day for grandparents. Moore did just that in 1973, the same year that Randolph introduced a Grandparent Day resolution in Congress.

Randolph's resolution bounced around both houses of Congress with no action for several years, until McQuade and her supporters turned to the media for help with their efforts. The added pressure paid off, and in 1978 Congress passed legislation declaring the first Sunday after Labor Day as National Grandparents Day. Carter signed his proclamation on September 6, 1979, and the first Grandparents Day was celebrated three days later.

In 1989, the U.S. Postal Service honored McQuade with a commemorative envelope bearing her likeness to acknowledge the tenth anniversary of the holiday. McQuade, sadly, passed away last year at the age of of 91. She was the mother of 15, the grandmother of 43, and the great-grandmother of 15.

In that original proclamation, Carter wrote that because grandparents "are usually free to love and guide and befriend the young without having to take daily responsibility for them, they can often reach out past pride and fear of failure and close the space between generations."

Today, though, an increasing number of grandparents have actually assumed daily responsibility for their grandchildren. According to AARP, 4.5 million children are being raised in households headed by grandparents. For those kids and millions of others, grandparents create special relationships and impart lessons that last a lifetime. As Carter wrote, "Grandparents are our continuing tie to the near-past, to the events and beliefs and experiences that so strongly affect our lives and the world around us."

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rents Day Quotes

A variety of quotes about grandparents, grandmothers, and grandfathers

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Proverbs | A | B | C | D | E | F | G | H | J | K | L | M | N | O | P | R | S | T | U | V | W | Y | Unknown
African

"If you know his father and grandfather, don't worry about his son."

"The motherless child will suckle the grandmother."
Chinese
"The old are the precious gem in the center of the household."

"To forget one's ancestors is to be a brook without a source, a tree without a root."
German
"Even the devil's grandmother was a nice girl when she was young."

Indian

"The baby is not yet born, and yet you say that his nose is like his grandfather's."

Irish

"You've got to do your own growing, no matter how tall your grandfather was."

Italian

"If nothing is going well, call your grandmother."

Jewish
"One of life's greatest mysteries is how the boy who wasn't good enough to marry your daughter can be the father of the smartest grandchild in the world."
"When you have a grandchild, you have two children."
Sioux

"A people without history is like wind on the buffalo grass."

Spanish

"Children brought up by their grandparents are generally spoiled."

"Those who have no grandparents lose very much."

Traditional

"Don't teach your grandmother to suck eggs."

"A good man will have wealth to leave his grandchildren."

"Children's children are a crown to the aged, and parents are the pride of their children."

Welsh

"Perfect love sometimes does not come until the first grandchild."
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Aeschylus

"Learning is ever young, even in old age."
Louisa May Alcott

"A house needs a grandma in it."

Thomas Bailey Aldrich

"To keep the heart unwrinkled, to be hopeful, kindly, cheerful, reverent — that is to triumph over old age."

Joyce Allston

"Grandparents, like heroes, are as necessary to a child's growth as vitamins."
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Irina Baronove-Tennant

"It's so important to give your children and grandchildren inspiration ... Teach them to notice, to pay attention, to appreciate, and to be inquisitive. Don't just look, try to see."

Dave Barry

"The best babysitters, of course, are the baby's grandparents. You feel completely comfortable entrusting your baby to them for long periods, which is why most grandparents flee to Florida."

Marjory Barslow-Greenbie

"Beautiful young people are accidents of nature / But beautiful old people are works of art."

Paulette Bates Alden

"Her grandmother, as she gets older, is not fading but rather becoming more concentrated."

Hilaire Belloc

"Dear Grandmamma, with what we give / We humbly pray that you may live / For many, many happy years: / Although you bore us all to tears."

Teresa Bloomingdale

"If your baby is 'beautiful and perfect, never cries or fusses, sleeps on schedule and burps on demand, an angel all the time,' you're the grandma."

Erma Bombeck

"A grandmother pretends she doesn't know who you are on Halloween."

Hal Boyle

"Does Grandpa love to baby-sit his grandchildren? Are you kidding? By day he is too busy taking hormone shots at the doctor's or chip shots on the golf course. At night he and Grandma are too busy doing the cha-cha."

Anthony Brandt

"Other things may change us, but we start and end with the family."

Thomas Berry Brazelton

"Grandparents who want to be truly helpful will do well to keep their mouths shut and their opinions to themselves until these are requested."

Pam Brown

"Becoming a grandmother is wonderful. One moment you're just a mother. The next you are all-wise and prehistoric."

Pearl S. Buck

"Perhaps one has to be very old before one learns to be amused rather than shocked."

Gail Lumet Buckley

"Family faces are magic mirrors. Looking at people who belong to us, we see the past, present and future."
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Rachel Carson

"If a child is to keep alive his inborn sense of wonder, he needs the companionship of at least one adult who can share it, rediscovering with him the joy, excitement and mystery of the world we live in."

Jimmy Carter

"Because (grandparents) are usually free to love and guide and befriend the young without having to take daily responsibility for them, they can often reach out past pride and fear of failure and close the space between generations."

Lord Chesterfield

"Being pretty on the inside means you don't hit your brother and you eat all your peas — that's what my grandma taught me."

Eth Clifford

"My grandfather was a giant of a man ... When he walked, the earth shook. When he laughed, the birds fell out of the trees. His hair caught fire from the sun. His eyes were patches of sky."

Claudette Colbert

"Why do grandparents and grandchildren get along so well? They have the same energy — the mother."

G. Norman Collie

"Grandchildren don't make a man feel old; it's the knowledge that he's married to a grandmother."

Bill Cosby

"What is it about grandparents that is so lovely? I'd like to say that grandparents are God's gifts to children. And if they can but see, hear and feel what these people have to give, they can mature at a fast rate."

Billy Crystal

"I'm going to be your grandpa! / I have the biggest smile. / I've been waiting to meet you for such a long, long while."
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Ellen DeGeneres

"My grandmother started walking five miles a day when she was sixty. She's ninety-seven now, and we don't know where the hell she is."

Marcy DeMaree

"Grandma always made you feel she had been waiting to see just you all day and now the day was complete."

Geoff Dench

"Grandparents should play the same role in the family as an elder statesman can in the government of a country. They have the experience and knowledge that comes from surviving a great many years of life's battles and the wisdom, hopefully, to recognise how their grandchildren can benefit from this."

Mary Mapes Dodge

"Grandma told me all about it, / Told me so I couldn't doubt it, / How she danced, my grandma danced; long ago...."

John Donne

"No spring, nor summer hath such grace. As I have seen in one autumnal face."

Edward H. Dreschnack

"Just about the time a woman thinks her work is done, she becomes a grandmother."
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Suzette Haden Elgin

"A Grandmother is a safe haven."

Ralph Ellison

"I am not ashamed of my grandparents for having been slaves. I am only ashamed of myself for having at one time being ashamed."

Ralph Waldo Emerson

"We find delight in the beauty and happiness of children that makes the heart too big for the body."
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Vaughn J. Featherstone

"What a wonderful contribution our grandmothers and grandfathers can make if they will share some of the rich experiences and their testimonies with their children and grandchildren."

Fanny Fern

"Uncles and aunts, and cousins, are all very well, and fathers and mothers are not to be despised; but a grandmother, at holiday time, is worth them all."

Allan Frome

"Being grandparents sufficiently removes us from the responsibilities so that we can be friends."

Betty Ford

"Holding these babies in my arms makes me realize the miracle my husband and I began."

Jamie Foxx

"My Grandmother would say, ‘Make sure you look good. Make sure you speak well. Make sure you remain that Southern gentleman that I’ve taught you to be.'"

Robert Fulghum

"I love this child. Red-haired — patient and gentle like her mother — fey and funny like her father. When she giggles I can hear him when he and I were young. I am part of this child. It may be only because we share genes and that therefore smell familiar to each other.... It may be that a part of me lives in her in some important way.... But for now, it’s jelly beans and 'Old MacDonald' that unite us."
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Ruth Goode

"Our grandchildren accept us for ourselves, without rebuke or effort to change us, as no one in our entire lives has ever done, not our parents, siblings, spouses, friends — and hardly ever our own grown children."

Rudolph Giuliani

"What children need most are the essentials that grandparents provide in abundance. They give unconditional love, kindness, patience, humor, comfort, lessons in life. And, most importantly, cookies."
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Alex Haley

"Nobody can do for little children what grandparents do. Grandparents sort of sprinkle stardust over the lives of little children."

Joy Hargrove

"One of the most powerful handclasps is that of a new grandbaby around the finger of a grandfather."

Linda Henley

"If God had intended us to follow recipes, He wouldn't have given us grandmothers."

Oliver Wendell Holmes

"Blood is a destiny. One's genius descends in the stream from long lines of ancestry."

Victor Hugo

"If you would civilize a man, begin with his grandmother."

"There are fathers who do not love their children; there is no grandfather who does not adore his grandson."
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Samuel Johnson

"Whatever is formed for long duration arrives slowly to its maturity."

Joseph Joubert

"Life is a country that the old have seen, and lived in. Those who have to travel through it can only learn the way from them."
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Gottfried Keller

"Soup simmering, music of idle gossip, yammering kids, domestic chaos — long adjusted to this rolling scene, you show them your lofty calm."

Jean Kerr

"When the grandmothers of today hear the word 'Chippendales,' they don't necessarily think of chairs."

Jay Kesler

"Young people need something stable to hang on to — a culture connection, a sense of their own past, a hope for their own future. Most of all, they need what grandparents can give them...."

Helen Ketchum

"Grandmothers are voices of the past and role models of the present. Grandmothers open the doors to the future."

Florence King

"Let’s bring back grandmothers! A real family consists of three generations. It’s time Americans stopped worrying about interference and being a burden on the children and regrouped under one roof."

Arthur Kornhaber, M.D.

"The very fact that you don’t look or act or feel like the grandparents of even a generation ago does not mean that you are less, but that you are more — in effect, an evolved form of grandparents, primed to do a bigger and more challenging job than any group before you."

"If grandmas hadn’t existed, kids would have inevitably invented them."

Mike Krzyzewski

"It’s funny what happens when you become a grandparent. You start to act all goofy and do things you never thought you’d do. It’s terrific."

Maggie Kuh

"We must act as elders of the tribe, looking out for the interests of the future and preserving the precious compact between the generations."
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Suzanne La Follette

"No one ... who has not known that inestimable privilege can possibly reaslise what good fortune it is to grow up in a home where there are grandparents."

Janet Lanese

"God gave us loving grandchildren as a reward for all our random acts of kindness."

"Whether she is a homemaker or career woman, all a grandmother wants is her family’s love and respect as a productive individual who has much to contribute."

"It’s impossible for a grandmother to understand that few people, and maybe none, will find her grandchild as endearing as she does."

"Being a grandmother is our last chance to act like a kid without being accused of being in our second childhood."

Doug Larson

"Few things are more delightful than grandchildren fighting over your lap."

"There's nothing like having a grandchild to restore faith to heredity."

"The idea that no one is perfect is a view most commonly held by people with no grandchildren."

Bill Laurin

"If I would have known that grandchildren were going to be so much fun I would have had them first."

Camara Laye

"They pampered me, especially my grandmother ... I loved her with all my heart."

Mel Lazarus

"The secret of life is to skip having children and go directly to grandchildren."

Madeline L'Engle

"She seems to have had the ability to stand firmly on the rock of her past while living completely and unregretfully in the present."

Eda J. LeShan

"Our attitudes toward retirement, marriage, recreation, even our feelings about death and dying may make much more of an impression than we realize."

Sam Levenson

"The reason grandchildren and grandparents get along so well is that they have a common enemy."

"The simplest toy, one which even the youngest child can operate, is called a grandparent."

Judith Levy

"When a child is born, so are grandmothers."

Abraham Lincoln

"I don't know who my grandfather was
I am much more concerned to know what his grandson will be."

Anne Morrow Lindbergh

"So many things we love are you!"

Paul Linden

"Something magical happens when parents turns into grandparents. Their attitude changes from "money-doesn't-grow-on-trees" to spending it like it does."

Art Linkletter

"Posterity is the patriotic name for grandchildren."

Joyce K. Allen Logan

"When it seems the world can’t understand, your grandmother’s there to hold your hand."

Sarah Long

"My grandfather was a wonderful role model. Through him I got to know the gentle side of men."

Sophia Loren

"There is a fountain of youth: It is your mind, your talents, the creativity you bring to your life and the lives of the people you love. When you learn to tap this source, you will have truly defeated age."

Lucretius

"In a brief space the generations of beings are changed, and, like runners, pass on the torches of life."
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Horace Mann

"It would be more honourable to our distinguished ancestors to praise them in words less, but in deeds to imitate them more."

Don Marquis

"In order not to influence a child, one must be careful not to be that child’s parent or grandparent."

Joan McIntosh

"They say genes skip generations. Maybe that's why grandparents find their grandchildren so likeable."

Margaret Mead

"Everyone needs to have access both to grandparents and grandchildren in order to be a full human being."

"The closest friends I made all through life have been people who also grew up close to a loved and loving grandmother or grandfather."

Christopher Morley

"It is as grandmothers that our mothers come into the fullness of their grace."

"By the time the youngest children have learned to keep the house tidy, the oldest grandchildren are on hand to tear it to pieces."

Charles and Ann Morse

"A child needs a grandparent, anybody's grandparent, to grow a little more securely into an unfamiliar world."

"The history of our grandparents is remembered not with rose petals but in the laughter and tears of their children and their children's children. It is into us that the lives of grandparents have gone. It is in us that their history becomes a future."

Grandma Moses

"Even now / I am not old. / I never think of it, and yet / I am a grandmother to eleven grandchildren."

Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart

"My great grandfather used to say to his wife, my great-grandmother, who in turn told her daughter, my grandmother, who repeated it to her daughter, my mother, who used to remind her daughter, my own sister, that to talk well and eloquently was a very great art, but that an equally great one was to know the right moment to stop."

Lewis Mumford

"Every generation revolts against its fathers and makes friends with its grandfathers."
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Ogden Nash

"When grandparents enter the door, discipline flies out the window."

F. W. Nietzsche

"A man's maturity consists in having found again the seriousness one had as a child, at play."

Donald A. Norberg

"Surely, two of the most satisfying experiences in life must be those of being a grandchild or a grandparent."
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Henry Old Coyote

"The feeling of grandparents for their grandchildren can be expressed this way: “Our children are dear to us; but when we have grandchildren, they seem to be more dear than our children were."

William Osler

"Varicose veins are the result of an improper selection of grandparents."
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Bryna Nelson Paston

"Truth be told, being a grandma is as close we ever get to perfection. The ultimate warm sticky bun with plump raisins and nuts. Clouds nine, ten, and eleven."

John Pearson

"The Queen Mother, with a lifetime's popularity, seemed incapable of a bad performance as national grandmother — warm, smiling, human, understanding, she embodied everything the public could want of its grandmother."

Gene Perret

"What a bargain grandchildren are! I give them my loose change, and they give me a million dollars' worth of pleasure."

"I always give my grandkids a couple of quarters when they go home. It's a bargain."

"Grandchildren don't stay young forever, which is good because Pop-pops have only so many horsey rides in them."

"My grandkids believe I'm the oldest thing in the world. And after two or three hours with them, I believe it, too."

"Do you know why grandchildren are always so full of energy? They suck it out of their grandparents."

"An hour with your grandchildren can make you feel young again. Anything longer than that, and you start to age quickly."

"I don't intentionally spoil my grandkids. It's just that correcting them often takes more energy than I have left."

"I wish I had the energy that my grandchildren have — if only for self-defense."

"On the seventh day God rested. His grandchildren must have been out of town."

"Grandparents are there to help the child get into mischief they haven't thought of yet."

"Two things I dislike about my granddaughter — when she won't take her afternoon nap, and when she won't let me take mine."

"I like to do nice things for my grandchildren — like buy them those toys I've always wanted to play with."

"My grandchild has taught me what true love means. It means watching Scooby-Doo cartoons while the basketball game is on another channel."

"Grandchildren: the only people who can get more out of you than the IRS."

"You're more trouble than the children are" is the greatest compliment a grandparent can receive."

Tom Potts

"The birth of a grandchild is a wonderful and exciting event! That wonder and excitement continues throughout life."

Alvin F. Poussaint

"Just as a father feels it is all ending and his children are off to start their own families, a new role begins. In midlife, Dad may experience his second "fatherhood" as a grandparent."

"Grandfathers do have a special place in the lives of their children's children. They can delight and play with them and even indulge them in ways that they did not indulge their own children. Grandfather knows that after the fun and games are over with his adorable grandchildren he can return to the quiet of his own home and peacefully reflect on this phenomenon of fatherhood."

J.B. Priestley

"To show a child what has once delighted you, to find the child's delight added to your own, so that there is now a double delight seen in the glow of trust and affection, this is happiness."
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Robert L Rice, M.D.

"A friend of mine was asked how she liked having her first great-grandchild. 'It was wonderful,' she replied, 'until I suddenly realized that I was the mother of a grandfather!'"

Fred Rogers

"The presence of a grandparent confirms that parents were, indeed, little once, too, and that people who are little can grow to be big, can become parents, and one day even have grandchildren of their own. So often we think of grandparents as belonging to the past; but in this important way, grandparents, for young children, belong to the future."

Andy Rooney

"Elephants and grandchildren never forget."

Rita Rudner

"Have children while your parents are still young enough to take care of them.

Alison Judson Ryerson

"Even young grandparents seem enormously old to a small child, although the child may politely deny it. One small girl, feeling proud of reaching the monumental age of four, turned to her young-looking grandmother and asked, 'How come I’m so old if you’re so new?'"
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Lexie Saige

"Sometimes our grandmas and grandpas are like grand-angels."

Seattle, Chief of the Duwamish, Suquamish and allied Indian tribes

"You must teach your children that the ground beneath their feet is the ashes of your grandfathers. So that they will respect the land, tell your children that the earth is rich with the lives of our kin. Teach your children what we have taught our children, that the earth is our mothers. Whatever befalls the earth befalls the sons of the earth. If men spit upon the ground, they spit upon themselves."

William Shakespeare

"A grandma's name is little less in love than is the doting title of a mother."

"Good old grandsire ... we shall be joyful of thy company."

Charles W. Shedd

"Some of the world's best educators are grandparents."

Will Shriner

"I want to die in my sleep like my grandfather — not screaming and yelling like the passengers in his car."

Laura Spiess

"Grandma and Grandpa, tell me a story and snuggle me with your love. When I'm in your arms, the world seems small and we're blessed by the heavens above."

Adlai Stevenson

"It is not the years in your life but the life in your years that counts!"

Susan Strasberg

"I loved their home. Everything smelled older, worn but safe; the food aroma had baked itself into the furniture."

Igor Stravinsky

"It's one of nature's way that we often feel closer to distant generations than to the generation immediately preceding us."
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Margaret Thatcher

"We have become a grandmother."

Phyllis Theroux

"We should all have one person who knows how to bless us despite the evidence, Grandmother was that person to me."

Helen Thomson

"Most grandmas have a touch of the scallywag."

Kitty Tsui

"You are the sun, grandma, you are the sun in my life."
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Liv Ullmann

"Soon I will be an old, white-haired lady, into whose lap someone places a baby, saying, 'Smile, Grandma!' — I, who myself so recently was photographed on my grandmother's lap."
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Gore Vidal

"Never have children, only grandchildren."
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Mary H. Waldrip

"Grandchildren are God's way of compensating us for growing old."

Alice Walker

"Our mothers and grandmothers ... moving to music not yet written."

Hannah Whithall Smith

"If becoming a grandmother was only a matter of choice, I should advise every one of you straight away to become one. There is no fun for old people like it!"

Mrs. Margaret Whitlam

"Now that I've reached the age where I need my children more than they need me, I really understand how grand it is to be a grandmother."

Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

"It's not that age brings childhood back again,
Age merely shows what children we remain."

John Wooden

"Our land is everything to us.... I will tell you one of the things we remember on our land. We remember that our grandfathers paid for it — with their lives."

Lois Wyse

"Grandchildren are the dots that connect the lines from generation to generation."

"If I had known how wonderful it would be to have grandchildren, I'd have had them first."

"A mother becomes a true grandmother the day she stops noticing the terrible things her children do because she is so enchanted with the wonderful things her grandchildren do."

"Didn't we, like our grandchildren, begin with a childhood we thought would never end? Now, all of a sudden, I'm older than my parents were when I thought they were old."
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Aby Yahya

"Look, how they scold me for all my loving and tippling, now that the silvery edges shine forth from my brow!"

Henny Youngman

"My grandmother is over eighty and still doesn't need glasses. Drinks right out of the bottle."
"Grandmas are moms with lots of frosting."

"Grandmothers are just antique little girls."

"Grandfathers are just antique little boys."

"A grandmother is a babysitter who watches the kids instead of the television."

"There's no place like home except Grandma's."

"A married daughter with children puts you in danger of being catalogued as a first edition."

"Grandmas never run out of hugs or cookies."

"Grandmas hold our tiny hands for just a little while, but our hearts forever."

"A grandfather is someone with silver in his hair and gold in his heart."

"Grandfathers are for loving and fixing things."

"It's such a grand thing to be a mother of a mother — that's why the world calls her grandmother."

"You do not really understand something unless you can explain it to your grandmother."

"Grandmother-grandchild relationships are simple. Grandmas are short on criticism and long on love."

"The best place to be when you're sad is Grandpa's lap."

"I have a warm feeling after playing with my grandchildren. It's the liniment working."

"Grandmother — a wonderful mother with lots of practice."

"A grandparent is old on the outside but young on the inside."

"It's amazing how grandparents seem so young once you become one."

"A garden of Love grows in a Grandmother's heart."

"A grandmother is a little bit parent, a little bit teacher, and a little bit best friend."

"Grandparents are similar to a piece of string — handy to have around and easily wrapped around the fingers of their grandchildren."

"A grandmother is a mother who has a second chance."

"No cowboy was ever faster on the draw than a grandparent pulling a baby picture out of a wallet."

"My granddaughter came to spend a few weeks with me, and I decided to teach her to sew. After I had gone through a lengthy explanation of how to thread the machine, she stepped back, put her hands on her hips, and said in disbelief, 'You mean you can do all that, but you can't play my Game Boy?'"

"My grandson was visiting one day when he asked, 'Gramma, do you know how you and God are alike?' I mentally polished my halo while I asked, 'No, how are we alike?' 'You're both old,' he replied."

"Truth be told, there's nothing better than being a grandparent. All our elders know this and it is evidenced by that twinkle in their eyes. Of course, they know more than they let on — life's secrets have come to them through time, experience, and patience."

"Grandparents are a family's greatest treasure, the founders of a loving legacy, The greatest storytellers, the keepers of traditions that linger on in cherished memory. Grandparents are the family's strong foundation. Their very special love sets them apart. Through happiness and sorrow, through their special love and caring, grandparents keep a family close at heart."

"Grandparents are the footsteps to the future generations."

"Grandparents are a delightful blend of laughter, caring deeds, wonderful stories and Love."

"Grandparents bring about a side that you probably wish that's how your parents dealt with you while you were a child. Abundance of indulgence and unwavering love.

"Grandparents make the world ... a little softer, a little kinder, a little warmer.

"Unconditional positive regard is rarely given by anyone except a grandparent."

"A zest for life is one of the most important examples a grandparent can pass on to their grandchildren."

"Grandchildren give us a second chance to do things better because they bring out the best in us."

"Although you've raised children of your own, now you don't have to worry about all the responsibilities that come with parenting. You've earned the right to enjoy being a grandparent."

"Blessed be the ties that bind generations."

"A Grandmother is a special person who causes a joyful happening in the heart of a child."

"Grandma's kitchen ... kids eat free."

"Grandmas never run out of hugs or cookies."

"I'm the twinkle in my Grandpa's eye...."

"The handwriting on the wall means the grandchildren found the crayons."

"Grandpas always have time for you when everyone else is too busy."

"Grandpas have the patience and time to teach you how to sail a model boat or take you to a football match."

"Only your granddad and your granny can be relied on never to get angry with you, even when you've been really, really naughty."
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In the years since Jimmy Carter first declared Grandparents Day a national holiday in 1978, we’ve been following his call to reflect on the impact grandparents have on our own lives — and on society. In that spirit, we’ll help you celebrate the grands in your life with creative gifts, activities for the whole family, and more.